Bob’s Diagnosis of Me

Bob and I talked about how I’m doing last night–the gist is that he isn’t seeing what I am feeling.  He says I’m still lethargic, unresponsive to him and the kids, and not participating in their lives.  He said he wasn’t trying to denigrate the work I had done  and talked with him about, but that he wasn’t seeing me bounce back like I had before.  I told him I thought I had gotten lower than I had in a long time because I had been considering withdrawing from the MFA program and stopping writing altogether.  I felt like I had further to climb back this time.  But  I really feel like I have made strides in the Psycamore program and will continue to do better.

He really terrified me.  I want to do better, but I don’t want to fall back into those fear patterns and suffering from that crippling fear that if I don’t get my act together that I’ll lose him.  I am trying to let go of the idea that I can control other people’s actions. Because I’m learning I can’t really.  But then I have a conversation like this that sounds like a threat. And I get scared all over again.


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